random loose threads

[driftsintobuffetline]

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2016
January 29 - Returning from Submarining
February 13 - What are you thoughts on MARRIAGE?
February 16 - Day 1, Soviet Occupied Import Cities
March 12 - They were supposed to talk about Miles and Greg, but talked about themselves instead
April 14th - Kinks, Tatts, and Power Suppression
June - Admiring the Ring
July 27 - Hermann's New Car
After the Kaiju Test - Need a New Apartment

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[driftsintobuffetline]

"You..." If he looked shocked, he was, but the smile would absolutely not leave his face, no matter how astounded the expression. "You want to court me? Hermann, that's--it's twenty-fif--twenty-sixteen, it's 2016 now and you're talking about courting me like I'm, we're some--" He gave a breathless laugh in wonderment and looked down at their hands, wriggling his fingers to enjoy the feel of Hermann's hand in his as he singsonged: "You want to court me... We're gonna go steady~"

Hermann had no need to court him, not when Newt was already his, hook line and sinker. But Hermann was going to anyway. What was that like? What was it like when it was Hermann, who withheld his emotions until they were fit to burst?

"You want to court me," he repeated, softly, quietly, like he was saying the words aloud just to hear them again and commit them to reality.

"Okay, okay, so how're we defining 'properly' here?" He shifted closer and sat up straighter, freeing one hand to straighten his glasses and trying to give this due serious consideration. But he was also nervous, in a happy, giddy way, and feeling far too sentimental to be considered legal, and Newt failingly tried to mask it behind humor. "I mean, are we courting with Victorian sensibilities, like do we need to get ourselves a chaperon and separate rooms again, what are we looking at?" He laughed, his voice raising in mirth. "Are there rituals? A guy's gotta ask."

[mathemagier]

It was worth it just to see Newton's expression alight with wonder and pleasure. While it was technically 2025 by their standards, the meaning of the phrase was no less outdated.

"Yes, I want to court you." Not that he knew the first thing about doing so- only that he needed to be more active in their relationship and this was, in a way, a test of his own resolve to put himself forward and prove his sincerity to Newton.

He'd given the man gifts certainly, taken him out on a date crafted around his interests, and recently assisted in rescuing him from an enemy vessel. However, only one of those scenarios counted as a specifically romantic gesture. Perhaps he should set himself a goal, with the 'last' being a proposal. Engagement may well be the modern day equivalent of courting, but he felt they'd use that time for planning and any last bits of hesitation. A short engagement would suit them well.

"Hardly," Hermann returned with the same edge of amusement. His free hand came to rest on Newton's hip. "I'm only interested in establishing an appropriate length of time between our relationship milestones to avoid rushing into too much at once. ..Of course, I also really do believe you deserve more than I've been able to adequately express in these past two months."

[driftsintobuffetline]

He glanced down at Hermann's hand on his hip and bit back a teasing comment.

"Hermann. Hey. You've expressed adequately," he tried instead, but that blindly faithful failure to acknowledge faults was not him, not them, and Newt backpedaled. "Well, no, I mean, I'd like a bit more expressed, uh, but I'm not great at it either, and I didn't sign onto this expecting you'd be like a poet or something. Really. To be honest, Hermann, that we're even having this conversation and I'm not stocking up on Valentine's candy to drown my unrequited love with, is itself pretty miraculous. I could be deep in a box of truffles by now."

Before everything changed that evening in November, Newt figured he would have to just deal with it and hope it didn't get much worse. Looking back, he overestimated his ability to 'deal with it' and underestimated how much worse those feelings could get.

The giddiness slipped back into his tone and shined in his eyes. "You're going to have rein me in, you realize, if you want to pace this. Let's be real, Hermann. I tried, I tried valiantly and, logically, I could make the argument, but really? I don't know how much longer I was going to be able to resist the calls of 'put a ring on it'" which made Newt sound a lot braver than he was, which was just fine by him. Hermann didn't need to know he had been terrified that Hermann would say no and leave him forever just because Newt suggested such a thing. And had they actually agreed to marry? Or to discuss the 'M' word? Were they avoiding saying that one? He wasn't sure, but now that he'd said it, he couldn't avoid adding: "I swear to god, we should elope someday just to spite Hiro."

[mathemagier]

"He would be rather put out," Hermann agreed with a smile despite his own concerns. "But I'd really prefer him to be present for the ceremony. For all you were trying to get him off your case about it however, I'd almost thought you weren't interested in that sort of commitment to start with."

It made sense, given the example Newton's parents had set for him. But now Newton was talking about rings and unrequited love, and a general eagerness to claim him for his own. It was all very catching, but their relationship was unbalanced and if he was going to marry this man, he'd much rather it be on equal ground- just as they were in most everything else.

"Well I must say I'm glad we were able to have this talk before you did anything of the sort at least. It's likely saved us from what I would optimistically refer to as 'a right mess', and a disaster at worst." He gave a brief squeeze to their joined hands. "Give it some time yet Newton, then I'll promise a short engagement."

[driftsintobuffetline]

Break Hiro's little shipper heart, it would serve him right. Make him suffer for his sins. But yes, Newt wanted the kid there, for one, because he was their friend, but also because he was probably the first to express actual investment (however teasingly) in them being together, as opposed to just trying to speculate or win a JTech bet...and there was something very valuable about that.

But Hermann's next words made Newt stop short and frown. A short engagement was fine and dandy and he was quite okay with being courted and doing courting and making this take a while, but what the hell did Hermann mean when he said they'd averted disaster? Really, was Newt's proposal that unwelcome without forewarning? Did Hermann think Newt would have fucked it up? He would have done just fine, okay, down on one knee and everything and--yes, okay, it was very good they had this talk because he might not have ever actually proposed otherwise (except ...he wouldn't have been able to not... not with Joaquin and Hiro breathing down his neck to do so, but...)...but a right mess? They would have sorted themselves out. They always did.

They did...

Shit, thanks a lot, Hermann, now he was getting paranoid.

"Why would it have been a mess? What, you wouldn't have said 'yes'?"

[mathemagier]

He'd always been regrettably susceptible to social blunders, particularly in an interpersonal context, and the recognition of this failing left him feeling fairly contrite.

"Unfortunately, I believe I would have refused on the basis of needing more time while also not entirely sure you were aware of what you were asking for." As far as his disease went along with that flawed, imperfect future that promised endless complication.

"I doubt you would have taken that gracefully. I may also have failed to explain properly, and suffice to say it would have taken some time to sort that all out."

[driftsintobuffetline]

He begrudgingly admitted to himself that Hermann had a point. Yes, he would not have accepted a refusal very gracefully and it was impossible to speculate exactly HOW that would have gone down, but it would have gone downhill fast. And that was frightening, to think of how that little refusal of a thing they hadn't even discussed wanting, and Newt hadn't even fully expected Hermann to agree to anyway, would have triggered all sorts of fear and abandonment and loneliness and feelings of inadequacy and the split years ago when their meet-up went sour and the thought of losing Hermann again and--

It was abundantly clear: he wanted very much to spend his life with Hermann. And it scared him to think he could have fucked that up and missed his chance again.

"Well, glad we didn't go THAT route. But we're good now, right? I mean, anything else you want to discuss?" He stroked his thumb over Hermann's wrist, just under the wristband of the watch. "I know you're working on some longterm plans up in that head of yours, but if you're not ready to share with the class, I'm fine with that. Or if you want my input, I mean, so you have the variables, or whatever? What is going to make this work?" They were both pretty socially inept, but it had worked to lay it all out on the table before. They could try that again.