:P Sorry, not sorry about the not-sorry!sorry thing. As for the NSFW topic, I will try not to corrupt the Disney princess any further...FOR NOW.
No, I don't think you were trying to be a creep, dude. Hey, if he's not up for platonic cuddle times, he's not up for platonic cuddle times. Not everyone is, seminar or no. Agreed he doesn't have to explain himself, just hope he comes around, because platonic cuddles with the BFF are +A, would recommend. And he kind of needs them, I think. Or not need-needs, but would benefit. More physical contact might actually do him some good, you know? But let's be real, phys contact is not something to force on another person. So hopefully he will realize for himself that he wants this and will get some platonic "no homo" cuddles in with you, maybe while watching a movie or something. Cause that's not gay...
Seriously, though. You two should do some more BFF time. Like, not to be weird, not trying to smush you two together or anything, but I not!dated Hermann for a while there. It was nice. For both of us, I think. Bonding *jazz hands.* Maybe Joaquin just needs some time letting you back into his comfort zone. Take Joaquin out for stuff. Lunch. Coffee. Sit in the park and let him smoke (if you can stand it...sit upwind, and fyi I am not advocating second-hand smoke). Do stuff. idk what you two do together. But if you need money, let me know. I can send you with some money or gift cards or something and we can pretend you made it while doing a gig? So he doesn't feel weird? Or count me as patron numero uno or we'll consider it an advance until you get famous and have a platinum record and multi-album deal with a recording company and then you can pay me back. Or sign something and I'll sell it on ebay and make back my "loan" in x100.
Which is to say, if you need something, let me know. I'm starting to feel like Scrooge McDuck with his vault of gold coins to swim in, so yeah, take my money before I get bored and buy out a music store.
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No, I don't think you were trying to be a creep, dude. Hey, if he's not up for platonic cuddle times, he's not up for platonic cuddle times. Not everyone is, seminar or no. Agreed he doesn't have to explain himself, just hope he comes around, because platonic cuddles with the BFF are +A, would recommend. And he kind of needs them, I think. Or not need-needs, but would benefit. More physical contact might actually do him some good, you know? But let's be real, phys contact is not something to force on another person. So hopefully he will realize for himself that he wants this and will get some platonic "no homo" cuddles in with you, maybe while watching a movie or something. Cause that's not gay...
Seriously, though. You two should do some more BFF time. Like, not to be weird, not trying to smush you two together or anything, but I not!dated Hermann for a while there. It was nice. For both of us, I think. Bonding *jazz hands.* Maybe Joaquin just needs some time letting you back into his comfort zone. Take Joaquin out for stuff. Lunch. Coffee. Sit in the park and let him smoke (if you can stand it...sit upwind, and fyi I am not advocating second-hand smoke). Do stuff. idk what you two do together. But if you need money, let me know. I can send you with some money or gift cards or something and we can pretend you made it while doing a gig? So he doesn't feel weird? Or count me as patron numero uno or we'll consider it an advance until you get famous and have a platinum record and multi-album deal with a recording company and then you can pay me back. Or sign something and I'll sell it on ebay and make back my "loan" in x100.
Which is to say, if you need something, let me know. I'm starting to feel like Scrooge McDuck with his vault of gold coins to swim in, so yeah, take my money before I get bored and buy out a music store.