You can't be a friend and be immaterial, right? Make up your mind.
Not with YOU waiting--you can put it off indefinitely regardless of what you look like--but with other people being willing to wait FOR/WITH you. Maybe. I mean. I don't know. Maybe if you liked the person enough, regardless of how they looked or acted, it would be worth it to wait. Like, I mean, if you weren't just dating them to have sex with them. Some people don't date with endgame planned as marriage. Some people date to be temporary. Like me. I've only had temporary dates.
Is this making sense? I've had too much coffee to manage a decent explanation at the moment.
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Not with YOU waiting--you can put it off indefinitely regardless of what you look like--but with other people being willing to wait FOR/WITH you. Maybe. I mean. I don't know. Maybe if you liked the person enough, regardless of how they looked or acted, it would be worth it to wait. Like, I mean, if you weren't just dating them to have sex with them. Some people don't date with endgame planned as marriage. Some people date to be temporary. Like me. I've only had temporary dates.
Is this making sense? I've had too much coffee to manage a decent explanation at the moment.